Do you think that your relationship lacks romanticism and…sex? Maybe your wife doesn’t desire you as much anymore and she doesn’t want to make love? Or maybe, you just don’t know what to do? Whatever the reason may be, we can help you make your wife horny for you again.
Thus, the following advice will help you get there, to make your wife horny and most importantly, improve your relationship.
How To Make Your Wife Horny
If your daily life has become dull, breaking out the routine is key. For instance, to hint a possible change, you will need to act.
Consequently, by changing a few key things, you will improve your success with your wife.
Firstly, it all starts with appearance – whether we want it or not. By taking care of your appearance (both outside and inside), you will become more attractive. (1)
So, start by improving your style (ditch the jogging, t-shirt and your old pair of jeans). Instead, get out a pair of classy trousers (in cotton or linen for a more laid-back style or… if it’s hot) and a nice shirt (in doubt, choose a solid colour). Moreover, avoid bright colours and opt for a pair of trousers that matches your shirt (if you need more advice, google it).
Also, should you need it, go to the hairdresser and/or barber to clean up your face. Don’t forget, that’s not only for your wife, that’s also for you!
Last but not least, perfume is incredibly important. Indeed, a nice subtle smell can have an incredible power of attraction. However, it has to be subtle. Therefore, forget spraying half a can of deodorant. Instead, go for a perfume or eau de toilette with a nice woody or musky smell (1 or 2 sprays are more than enough).
Change the Ordinary
Appearance is one thing but behaviour is has important, if not more.
If your wife is used to a calm and composed you, try being a bit more out there. Otherwise, be a bit more reserved and cool.
By changing (a bit) your interactions, you will surprise your wife and you may be able to put a bit of spice in your relationship.
As a matter of fact, what’s most important is to be yourself – basically, let your hidden parts shine through a bit more. This is not about role play.
If there’s something most women need from a man, is sensuality. Indeed, physical touch, caresses, tenderness and sweet kisses are essential to maintain a women’s interest.
For instance, if you tend to go all in without any foreplay, usually it won’t be pleasurable for your other half. So, instead, take your time and share some sensuality…together.
You can start by caressing and kissing her neck. Then, slightly bite her ear (playfully) and explore the rest of her body with your hands. By doing so, you are showing her that you love her body and trust me, she will notice.
Also, there’s nothing like some well dosed sensuality to make the temperature rise!
Timing is Everything
Yes, it seems obvious, timing is everything. Most of the time, women’s libido is pretty high. However, sometimes is just not the right moment.
For example, if your wife is stressed, tired, sad or ill, don’t push yourself on her. If it feels like she wants to rest or do something else, let her. If you don’t, you could annoy her or worse, anger her.
So, choose the ideal moment. Sometimes, to find it, you just need to communicate openly. Tell her that you still love her and that you feel desire for her – if it’s the right time, she will let you know…
In addition, sometimes, the control of one’s own impulsions can help oneself to grow in life…and in bed. (2)
Be Good to Her (Constantly)
Women need us to be interested in them – even when it comes to the menial things.
Of course, if you don’t ask her how she’s feeling and what she’s been up to, she will feel neglected. Moreover, she will find it difficult to have intimate contact.
So, if you haven’t been there emotionally, it’s time to improve your communications skills. Be there when she needs you.
For instance, if she has too many things to deal with, give her hand with some of it.
Or, maybe she needs emotional support. In this case, reassure her, try finding solutions together or find a nice place to take her mind off her worries.
By doing what I just mentioned regularly, you will show her how much you care. However, this doesn’t guarantee sex but, it will show her that you are a reliable partner. Consequently, someone that she can count on. And that’s crucial to make your wife horny in the first place!
Add Some Romanticism
Let’s revisit the definition of romanticism first!
Romanticism doesn’t necessarily mean showering your loved one with flowers, chocolates or inviting her to a fancy diner.
Being romantic is an act of generosity (it doesn’t have to involve money) that translates your affection to your partner. This act solely depends of you, your personality and more importantly, your wife’s. After all, she’s the one you are trying to impress.
For example, if you live near the countryside, a natural park, the ocean or a lake, go for a walk, a camping trip or a hike! Don’t forget to get some water, food and adequate clothing though. 😉
Otherwise, you could organize a cinema night at home. Get her favourite movie, prepare some lovely home-made snacks, a nice bottle of wine or an infusion, get some candles out – and here you go, a glorious recipe for a cosy romantic night.
So, it’s up to you to imagine what she would enjoy and by doing the effort, you will show her how much you care. And that’s worth a thousand words!
How To Make Your Wife Horny – Conclusion
So to make your wife horny, you’ve got to make your wife happy …with you.
Sometimes, you just need to get out of your routine to reinforce your relationship. So, be innovative, a little crazy and brave!
Also, take care of yourself, improve your diet, exercise regularly, lose your extra weight and if needed, go see a therapist.
After all, those are qualities that also attract us so, it seems logical to cultivate them in us…
(1) Implicit and explicit preferences for physical attractiveness in a romantic partner: a double dissociation in predictive validity. Eastwick PW, Eagly AH, Finkel EJ, Johnson SE. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2011.
(2) Everyday temptations: an experience sampling study of desire, conflict, and self-control. Hofmann W, Baumeister RF, Förster G, Vohs KD. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2012.